About me
Hi, I’m David.
I began my therapeutic work in 2010, with a growing interest in understanding ourselves, our relationships, and the experiences that shape who we become. Over the years, this has developed into a deep commitment to creating spaces where people can explore themselves with greater curiosity, compassion and understanding.
I hold a Bachelor of Counselling and a Graduate Diploma in Sociology, and have continued to develop my practice through training in Internal Family Systems (IFS), developmental trauma, trauma-informed and somatic approaches, as well as couples and sexuality therapy.
My work is relational, person-centred and trauma-informed. I’m particularly interested in how early experiences can shape our nervous systems, relationships, emotional patterns and sense of self. I draw on IFS-informed parts work, attachment-informed approaches and somatic awareness to help explore what may be happening beneath the surface.
I believe meaningful change happens through safety, curiosity and compassion. I work collaboratively and at a pace that respects each person's needs and inner world, rather than imposing a predetermined way of working.
I have worked as a school counsellor, mental health worker and therapist in private practice, supporting adults with anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, sexuality and intimacy concerns, self-worth and shame, and the longer-term impacts of trauma. I now offer individual and couples therapy online throughout New Zealand.
I live in rural Waikato, New Zealand. Outside of work, I enjoy swimming, music, reading and writing. I’ve been married for over 20 years and am a father of four.
My Approach
My Approach
Many people come to therapy not because they are “broken,” but because ways of coping that once helped them survive are no longer working as well as they once did.
You may be thoughtful, perceptive and deeply relational, yet still find yourself easily overwhelmed. Perhaps you experience anxiety, emotional shutdown, compulsive coping, or relationships that feel confusing or draining. You may understand yourself well, yet still feel unable to shift what happens in your body, emotions or reactions.
I work with people who have adapted to difficult experiences and learned to function, cope or “hold it together,” sometimes at a personal cost. My approach is relational, person-centered, trauma-informed and unhurried. I pay attention to how safety and threat can show up in the body, emotions and relationships.
Drawing on Internal Family Systems (IFS)-informed parts work, attachment-informed and somatic approaches, we can explore early experiences, current relationships, emotional patterns and the stories you carry about yourself. We can also become curious about the different parts of you that may have developed to protect you, rather than judging or trying to get rid of them.
Therapy isn't about forcing insight or pushing for change. It's about creating space to understand what is happening, developing greater choice, and allowing change to happen at a pace that feels manageable.
I offer a collaborative, non-pathologizing space where all parts of you are welcome — including those that feel protective, uncertain, overwhelmed or wary of being seen. This work may be especially supportive if you've felt overwhelmed by therapy in the past, or if you're looking for depth without pressure.
Qualifications and development trainings
Qualifications
2011–2013 — Bachelor of Counselling
Laidlaw College, Auckland
Study included relational psychology, person-centred and narrative therapy, human development, culturalism and diversity.
2014–2016 — Graduate Diploma in Arts (Sociology)
Massey University
Majors/study areas included Sociology and Anthropology.
Professional Development
2024–2025 — Internal Family Systems Trauma Treatment Course
Frank Anderson, IFS Lead Trainer
2024–2025 — Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy Course
CSTIP / IST Institute
2024 — Certified Clinical Trauma Specialist (Family Therapy)
Trauma Institute International
2024 — Internal Family Systems Deepening Module
IFS Institute
2024 — Breathwork Fundamentals
Free to Breathe
2023 — Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification
The Centre for Healing
2023 — Introduction to the Internal Family Systems Model
IFS Institute
2022 — Certification in Sound Therapy & Sound Healing
IOATH
2021 — Imago Fundamentals (Couples Therapy) Training
Imago Institute
2018 — Sad Blokes: Men, Depression & Suicide Support Workshop
TM Training
2017 — Sexual Violence Support Workshop
SOS Kaipara